Why do I keep meeting women like this?

Women are the biggest b....es of them all, in saying that so can men be. If you meet someone like that ignore them, its the best thing to do, get on with your life and if its men you get on better with then so be it. By them huffing and puffing around you seems to me that they are jealous for some reason and its probably because you get on with men so well and they dont. Best wishes.